My dad has a very sexist view of Star Wars characters chibi Merry Christmas sweater. So at home, he exerts this view indirectly on me. Fine, he was brought up from a different culture from me, and thus it is valid he has these views. And I understand that as a women sitting provocatively is not to one’s advantage (I’m not sexist by the way. I’m a feminist) But he crossed my boundary when I was just sitting on my abdomen on my parents bed and showing pictures of phone covers from my phone to my mum, and thus my butt was facing up. My legs straight, and I wasn’t opening them and sitting provocatively. And then he covered a blanket on my butt.
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My dad is now waging an emotional war with me by giving the Star Wars characters chibi Merry Christmas sweater. My mum asks that I apologize to my dad abt what I have done. Because he is my elder and I need to respect my elders. And honestly, I feel like she is dehumanizing me because, as much as my dad is my elder, I have feelings too. And I am a maturing individual and I won’t always be having the same viewpoints as her or my dad. I want to tell both my dad and mum that the need to learn to respect my views and feelings. And accept that we have different viewpoints and that I dont want our different viewpoints to cause us to have a dysfunctional relationship. But how do I tell them in a manner where they won’t act out on me? Or throw me out of the house for “disrespecting elders”