I wore them when my kids were little so I didn’t have to carry a diaper bag Owl my nice button is out of order but my bite me button works just fine shirt. They also make your waist look tiny when the pockets are full. My husband wears them. I don’t mind them. They really came in handy when my kids were young since they’d insist on bringing a stuffed animal or toy with them wherever we went and would inevitably not want to carry it anymore. My husband would just stuffit in a cargo pocket and we’d be on our way. They were his dad’s pants. I wear cargo shorts, it’s the only way to avoid carrying a purse! I didn’t even know it wasn’t a thing any more until recently.
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I love cargos on Owl my nice button is out of order but my bite me button works just fine shirt. But I also don’t follow the trends, I don’t even know what the trends are, most of my clothes are over 5 years old because I buy what I like and not what the fashion is. I hate skinny jeans on men and find them ok on women if they are wearing boots. Cargo on handyman, cargo on. Sounds like you may be lacking in confidence, possibly from your earlier illness and your other half taking the lead, don’t overthink it, just do things the way you are comfortable, trust yourself, spend one on one time with your little one, like going out for the day, it will come, you have a long time to get to know this little person, and it will get easier.