Set boundaries for yourself…with your mother in law and with Moo… I’m a Goat shirt. YOU get to decide how people can treat you and impact your life. Let go of any sense that you owe it to someone else to let them control you and as a result, disrespect you. Make your needs and the things you will accept (tolerate) known and stick with it. It sounds hard. It really isn’t. And once someone understands you get to decide these things for yourself, they will learn what works and what doesn’t.
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I would definitely sit down and talk with both of Moo… I’m a Goat shirt. If you do this the. They both know what you said, and if she’s the type of person to twist words, she won’t be able to because he heard what you said at the same time. Go directly to him. Then go directly to her. People out far too much into asking strangers these things on social media. Not understanding that some people on here will go out of their way to ruin your relationship with both. You can’t grow as a family of you do not work things out by forcing communications when it’s hard to do so and by overcoming obstacles together as a family. That’s how family bonds are strengthened.