You’re wasting your time. He’s letting you know now who he is, believe Baby Yoda and Sloth shirt. You’re a woman with kids, he knew this going in. The way he started with “they’re not my kids” is a red flag. You didn’t ask if they were his kids as you know they’re not going into a relationship with someone with kids is pretty much a guarantee you will have to help with them one day probably before marriage. He literally just told you they’re not his and acted like if they were his then watching them would be a favor. Red flag.
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Not my understanding she wanted to go to college was off last week then asked the Baby Yoda and Sloth shirt to look after HIS kids he Declined because they are sick so she asked the bf he said No. Now, why is it Not up to the Bio Dad look after his own kids if the Mum can’t? It’s the bf responsibility how? It’s not his responsibility. However, if you see a need, you fill a need. The bf saw that his significant other needed help and he declined. That speaks volumes about the future he sees for himself and her. She needs someone that’s willing to step up and become part of the family, not a bystander.