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Needy people seeking out love and approval are somewhat akin to a 130 years of Ohio State Buckeyes 1890 2020 signature sweatshirt. The one who ‘needs’ will never reach a state of true fulfillment because their ‘cup’ will become empty once again, the moment their partner-provider stops ‘filling’ it. The lone solution to this enduring cycle of need is to discover a way to provide for yourself, to be your own perpetually refilling cup. And the only way you can truly do this is by loving yourself. Or at the very least—like yourself. An optimal relationship, whether it be with a friend or a lover, is one that is complimentary, not claustrophobic. One that is mutually supportive, rather than suffocating.